Out of the Mouth of Babes
Sometimes it takes a child to help us realize how little we actually know. See, children think like children, and grownups, well according to scripture, we should think like children, too.
Sometimes we think we have things all figured out. We have a PLAN. After all, if we fail to plan, we plan to fail, right? At least that is what I was taught. Even children learn to plan.
Just yesterday, my five-year-old daughter Butterfly was telling me her plan for when she grows up:
- She will never have babies so she won't have to become an old shosho (grandma) and then die. (In other words, if she doesn't actually give birth to a child , then she'll never enter the 'grownup' stage of life because giving birth to a child makes you a mother and then the cycle begins. Next you are a grandmother, and then you're really, old and then you die.)
- She'll just have orphans in her home to be her kids so she can still indulge in the benefits of being a 'mommy' (i.e. the freedom to do whatever she wants and to boss people around without the growing old part.)
- She will live with me, and she will drive Daddy's car.
As she told me her plan, I realized that since Butterfly is only five and has little experience 'growing up,' living on her own, falling in love, having babies, etc...she can't imagine ever doing it. I on the other hand have experiences that Butterfly does not. I CAN imagine it, but instead of correcting her, I allow her to continue with her 'plan' because I know that in time, she will grow and understand, and more importantly, come to a place where she will WANT to be a grown-up and live independently on her own.
The funny thing about our (we grown-ups) plans as children of a very wise, ancient, Father, is that we can't imagine the things God imagines. We are thinking too much like grown-ups; believing our life experiences are enough and therefore, we have all the information we need for putting together an accurate plan.
Butterfly's plan just made me realize that MY plans may not line up to my wise, Father's plans.
Our Father God, the Ancient of Days, has done far more planing than I've ever done. He planned a design for the universe and carried it out! It works. I believe that Dad knows when we grown-ups have a plan that is not all that accurate, sometimes, he doesn't tell us we don't have it all 'just right' because our little plan is doing us little harm. But perhaps we should think like a child, and realize that God is Father, and therefore, we should rely on Him to make the plan!
~Kate Brooks (AKA Mamma Butterfly)
Co-founder of A Future and a Hope, Home for orphaned girls in Nakuru, Kenya, East Africa
